Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Tangled


Our family LOVES this new Disney movie, Tangled.  If you haven't seen it yet, please promise me you will soon! This is our favorite scene from the movie - it only lasts a split second. I wonder how many people notice it. 

Anyway, one day Greg and I were sitting on the couch. The boys were doing their homework. I was almost asleep.  In my daze I realized that Greg was singing. Not any words - he doesn't talk much. But he was singing "aaah-aahh-ahhh" with no particular tune. And while he sang, he ran his fingers through my hair.  

I will never forget that moment.  I laughed and asked what he was doing.  He smiled sheepishly and gave me a hug.  I can't fault a boy for trying. Maybe his mom's hair IS magical!



And the next day I cut it. 

Nine inches!  I talked my mom into doing the honors. We were both nervous but she did a fabulous job.    Yesterday I sent my ponytail off in the mail, as a donation.  This is the third time I've donated my hair. The first two times I used Locks of Love, which is a children's charity.  I thought my donating days were over. I wasn't patient enough, even though my hair grows fast. It's been several years since I donated. But...


Last summer a good friend found out she had cancer. Debbie has been undergoing chemo and lost all her hair. When I visited her at home one day last Fall, she mentioned how she is obsessed with long hair now.  How could she not be?  I remember that my long hair had been driving me crazy that day and I was ready to cut it. (I normally love it, but some days...)  But after that visit, my outlook changed completely.  I decided that it wouldn't be much of a sacrifice to grow it out more and donate it again.  This time to a women's charity.  So that's what I did! I started growing it out and hoped it would be long enough by spring. It was!

I realize that my hair donation won't directly help my friend. But she inspired me and I hope my ponytail will help somebody out there who's going through the same thing.  Debbie's faith is amazing and she is a fighter. The worst of her treatments are over and she seems to be cancer free. And her hair is growing back.

Her hair is growing back!  

As far as I know, cutting my hair didn't make me lose any powers. In fact maybe I gained some!  (Like the ability to shower in half the time?) In the end it wasn't much of a sacrifice at all. It makes me wonder what other little things we can do each day that will have a big impact on other people's lives. 

What is your special power?  

4 comments:

Sharon said...

That is awesome! My hair get so dry and yucky at the ends I'm pretty sure no one would want mine:/ I'm sure there are lots of little sacrifices we can make to help other people, we just need to keep our hearts and minds open to possibilities. Kudos to you for doing such a kind act of service!

Adhis said...

I have some powers I use for good and others I use for not-good.

My uncanny ability to make Ben & Jerry's ice cream disappear within seconds falls under both categories.

The Bedke Fam said...

Way to go! I always think about donating my hair but I'm too impatient to let it grow long enough. It takes SO LONG to grow.

Your new length is cute!

And I want to see Tangled so bad! Everyone is always saying how awesome it is. One day...

Charles and Carolyn said...

You've almost convinced me. I would have to go quite a bit shorter than I would want, but my hair grows pretty fast too. Hmmmm